Keep the peace.

Short guides with word-for-word replies for hard messages from an ex, family, friends and work. Read one tonight.

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A taste of the replies inside

From the Co-Parenting Peace Playbook. An example inspired by real situations, names changed.

They demand money and tie it to the schedule
You owe me $180 for soccer. Pay today or [Child] doesn't play.
Thanks. Please send me the receipt. I will review it and reply by [day]. I would like to keep money questions separate from the schedule.

Change the words in [brackets] so the reply fits your situation. Check your own agreement for how costs are split.

Why these books

  • Built for hard momentsFind your situation in the contents and use that page in minutes.
  • Words you can useReady replies you can copy, change and send.
  • Yours in minutesA PDF that opens on any phone, tablet or computer. Print it if you like.

Hard moments often arrive as a message, a call or a request. We write short books that give you calm words and a clear next step, so you can keep the peace without a long fight.

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Is this legal or medical advice?

No. These books give general information and example wording. Laws and court rules differ by country and state. Speak to a qualified professional about your own case.

Will the scripts work for me?

They are starting points, not advice for your facts. Change the names and details so they sound like you. We cannot promise any result.

Which book should I start with?

If your hard messages come from an ex about your children, start with the Co-Parenting Peace Playbook. The Gentle Boundary Guide is for saying no to family, friends and work. The Soft Landing Guide is for the first 30 days after a layoff. The quiz can also help you choose.

What if I am not safe?

A book is not the right tool in an emergency. If you are in danger, call your local emergency number. The Co-Parenting Peace Playbook and the Gentle Boundary Guide each have a safety page with hotlines.

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